Before YouTube was popular and Vlogmas was a thing that 'Influencers' thought that they had invented, a lot of us regular bloggers did a little thing most Decembers called Blogmas.
Indeed some bloggers have kept up the tradition to this day but it does seemed to have declined somewhat over the years. Well this year I have decided to jump on our old bandwagon and give it a go for myself once again.
Each and every day I'll be here with a post of some description, mostly but not always Christmas related and hopefully with lots of little blasts from Christmases past.
To start us off here is a post I shared on 1st December 2009.
Tuesday, 1 December 2009
December...............woohoo...it's here!!
December never used to be a brilliant month for me, cold, damp, windy, muddy, frosty, crowds of people clogging the supermarkets and shops, no money to buy the things I really wanted to buy for the people I loved.
I left my first husband just after Christmas in 2002 after 24 years of marriage. The realisation that he had changed into a man I didn't know was heart-breaking. I spent two years building a life for me and my younger son (he was 15 at the time). He went on to Sixth Form and University and made me SO proud. He was there during two years of transition, we had fun together and we both turned our lives around.
At the end of this period I met and fell head over heels in love with my darling LH, we moved in together at Christmas a year later and we got engaged at Christmas the next year and then married on 4th December two years ago.
Last year for the very first time we drove onto this farm for a viewing just before Christmas and we spent the whole of Christmas organising our move and camping at one house or the other. So now I see December as a glorious end to each year, always with the promise of a fresh year to follow with more adventures and more to learn about our lives and each other.
My son is away again at University doing a Masters Degree (proud Mum once again) and will be home for a couple of weeks at Christmas, we have family birthdays to look forward to, but first we have an anniversary to celebrate. And yes, I brave the shops now, listen to the cheesy, lovely Christmas songs blaring away on the speakers, patiently wait with my basket of shopping while the people in front with their three trolleys of mostly unnecessary food argue and bicker over who they have not got presents for yet and their children wail and screech over what they want and what their friends have.
But now I do it patiently for the best Christmas present I ever got will be with me always, and his love makes December the best month of the year, truly OUR month, closely followed by January, February, March, April....oh you get the picture!!
Wishing each and every one of my lovely readers a wonderful December, enjoy the build up to Christmas, but remember always the ones you love and put them first, not the size of your turkey or the amount of food you can fit in your supermarket trolley!!
Oh and in February next year we will be getting our very own turkeys to grow slowly and happily here on our farm for next Christmas.
Normal farming chit chat will resume tomorrow.
Sue xx
I hope you enjoyed that ... oh and we never did get any turkeys. I couldn't bear the thought of raising and then eating them, they would have ended up as big, ugly pets. 😄
Sue xx 🎄
That's a wonderful post! Thank you.
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DeleteLovely memories and a beautiful post.
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Delete24 years is a long time to wake up one morning and realize you don't know the man you married any more. Well done for being brave enough to walk away from it though and now you and LH have been together nearly as long. Things have changed in your lives, and farming no longer part of your future, but life is like that.
ReplyDeleteNo Christmas queueing in the supermarket for me as middle daughter has offered to do the Christmas Shopping, since "I always forget something"!!!
We had definite financial plans that would have sorted out our future and he suddenly decided against them, meaning we would literally lose everything. It was the final straw.
DeleteEnjoy having your own personal Christmas shopper. 😀
We will be married 53 years on 24th December. People always think it’s romantic but it came about because I was a teacher and Norrie worked in the steelworks. Both of us finished for two weeks so it was a matter of convenience rather than romance! We were 21 and 22 and both families were not pleased as they thought we were too young. We grew up together and are now growing old together. Well done on having the courage to walk away and then start again, and for sharing your story with us. Catriona
ReplyDeleteWe were 23&24 when we married. We got married in the school holidays too as I was a teacher. But Dad was the Rev, and only had one Saturday in August free, so that fixed our date. Grateful for every day we have together, conscious of so many friends who are alone.
DeleteThat's amazing Catriona, Happy Anniversary for Christmas Eve. 🎄💖
DeleteWe were 18 and 22 Angela. I specifically chose to get married three days after my 18th birthday as I didn't want my parents to have to sign anything ... not that they would have refused, they loved Pete. 😀
DeleteThank you for sharing this post from your past. I also liked the list of things to remember this December and look forward to reading your Blogmas posts. :)
ReplyDeleteThere are thousands of past posts, so many to choose from. Let's just hope that I can think of think of something to write about each day. 😀
DeleteA great post thank you. It's lovely you found happiness again. Regards Sue H
ReplyDeleteI think that the break in the middle was a brilliant reset. 😀
DeleteI love it!!
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DeleteI too love this post. Pam in Texas x
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Deletethis is lovely xx
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DeleteWhat a lovely idea. I am going to try to join in... heaven help me remember that I am blogging every day for a month. But, I like challenges and doing things differently so I am gonna try!
ReplyDeleteGood luck, you can do it. ❤️
DeleteAw, such a lovely post💗 I'm thinking you and Alan will be celebrating your 17th Wedding Anniversary on Wednesday 4th December, if so I hope you have a very special day remembering all the wonderful memories you have made together❤️ My first marriage lasted 20 years, I met my second husband 3 years later and this year we celebrated our Silver Wedding Anniversary in August.
ReplyDeleteWe will indeed, where have all those years gone, and how on earth did we fit so much into them? 🤔
DeleteYou can't say we gave up easily can you, you and me have both had two long marriages.
That's such a lovely read, Sue. xxx
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you enjoyed it, it's nice to revisit the past at this time of year isn't it. I hope you have an amazing birthday holiday. xx
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