Friday, 29 August 2025
Beautiful Things
Thursday, 28 August 2025
Books and Signatures
Wednesday, 27 August 2025
Let someone love you ...
"Let someone love you just the way you are .... as flawed as you might be, as unattractive as you sometimes feel, and as unaccomplished as you think you are.
To believe that you must hide all the parts of you that are broken, out of fear that someone else is incapable of loving what is less than perfect, is to believe that sunlight is incapable of entering a broken window and illuminating a dark room."
Marc Hack
It might be easier said than done, but it's something to aim for for sure. π
Sue xx
Tuesday, 26 August 2025
Christmas on the Horizon?
We went out for lunch the other day to one of our favourite venues Daisy Clough Garden Centre and Tearooms in Scorton.
The are having a bit of a re-jig at the moment, the Autumn/Winter selection of clothes have appeared on the rails, the gardening section is being condensed and the pile of boxes at the entrance as we walked in suggested that Christmas will be appearing soon.
Alan chose a Prawn Salad and I had the small Fish and Chips with garden peas ... it's never mushy peas for me. Even the small portion was too much, so Alan ended up with all of the crispy little chips, his favourite sort ... and I ate all the big fat ones. We do compliment each other quite nicely. π
I also came home with some freebies off our table, the sugars that we didn't use, the little Biscoff biscuit that Alan wasn't in the mood for, and the lemon that was served with my fish, I don't like lemon juice on fish but I do use it in my compost heap jelly making, so it didn't go to waste.
On the way out I also spied two unopened little biscuit packs on a recently vacated table, so they came home with us too. I cannot bear the thought of good things ending up in the bin.
Sue xx
Monday, 25 August 2025
Menus ... and Holidays
Sunday, 24 August 2025
Katsu 'No-Chicken' Fillets
Saturday, 23 August 2025
A Blast from the Past
Friday, 22 August 2025
A Cashless Society
I've been using mostly cash for the last few weeks as I have to keep my credit card spending to the minimum, mostly as I always pay it off in full and I really don't want to have to dip into savings any more than I have to, to pay it while I have such a small trickle of cash coming in each month.
Doing this has really got me thinking about what a cashless society we are becoming, and in my opinion it's not a good thing at all. Look at the meme above and see what we would lose without cash in our pockets.
I was also thinking about how much the bank is actually making from the shop keepers for our credit and debit card purchases. The highest charge that they have to pay for the convenience of taking money from their customers via card is 3.4%, and the average for credit and debit cards works out just under 2%, it is slightly cheaper for debit cards.
That means if you take £50 as an example, if it were to be spent in cash over and over again changing hands from you, to the shopkeeper, them paying for their lunch or more stock etc. it would remain at £50, but if you were to spend it in the same way over and over again on a card, it would eventually disappear altogether into the pockets of the banks.
Food for thought ... and I have to say I do like using cash.
Sue xx
Thursday, 21 August 2025
Mother-in-Law's Tongue Cuttings ... with Bread and Marmalade
Wednesday, 20 August 2025
Breakfast at ...
Tuesday, 19 August 2025
A Bag Full of Memories
When we all met up at the weekend to celebrate Finley's 2nd birthday, (see yesterday's post if you missed it), my ex-husband Pete very thoughtfully brought with him a bag full of both our sons early things, he wanted me to have them now.
Special things like the cards we received when each of them was born, the little shoes that they both learned to walk in, both size 4, both blue. Their earliest colourings, drawings and writings from school and lots of other little special bits and pieces.
For me the absolute star of the bag of goodies were these two hand-knitted jumpers. Knitted by my Nana, because she knew that Simon loved to be dressed like his little brother, but with one just a little bit more grown-up and fancier than the other. At almost 90 years of age she raided her wool stash and came up with the design for these two little slip overs. Funnily enough I was only thinking of these a few weeks ago and feeling sorry that they had 'gone'
Then last night Jason sent me this photo from his baby album of the two of them modelling them at home.
They were both as thrilled to see them as I was to receive them, and they stirred lots of happy memories.
He also included this lovely little blue cardigan that my Mum made when Simon was born, and that both boys wore as babies. Aren't hand knitted items so precious for babies and small children. π
Sue xx
Monday, 18 August 2025
Leftovers ... and a Birthday Meal Out
After leaving myself with a lonely, single sausage after a sausage bun for my lunch last week, I decided this morning that I had better use it up and free some more space in my freezer.
I could have made myself a mini single sausage Toad in the Hole, or cooked it up, sliced it and added it to a bowl of pasta for an evening meal, but I was feeling lazy so instead I simply popped it into the Remoska to cook.
And while it was cooking away I whipped up a mini, slightly cheesy omelette using one egg and a big pinch of grated cheese, and using the biscuit cutter that was nearest in size to my slices of bread as a shaping device.
As you can see it worked a treat, and with the sausage sliced in half made for a tasty and surprisingly filling breakfast.
I'm a bit late in posting today as we enjoyed a real family day yesterday, we were helping my little great-grandson Finley-James celebrate his 2nd birthday. His birthday was actually on Friday, he had a party with all his little friends and family members on Saturday at a soft-play venue, and then he had a meal with our side of the family and his big and little brothers yesterday. This photo is of him letting off a bit of steam after finishing his lunch, he needed to he seemingly has the same big appetite that his dad and grandad had at that age.
While Finley-James and his great grandad Pete both tucked into chicken nuggets and chips, for my lunch I chose BBQ Cauliflower Wings served with a lovely cous cous based side salad, absolutely delicious and a bit more complicated than this mornings simple breakfast ... oh and for the record great-grandad Alan had Hunters Chicken and chips. π
Now it's all back to normal and menu planning for the week ahead.
Sue xx
Sunday, 17 August 2025
Just a Relaxing Sunday Post
Abbot's Bay, Derwent Water in the Lake District
Photo copyright Graham Shaw - my brother.
A peaceful, cooling photo for what has been promised to be a hot, hot day.
Cleaning Fruit by William K Blacklock
Something a lot of us are doing at the moment, before jam making, bottling or freezing.
A beautiful green kitchen, and you all know how much I love a green kitchen. π
Saturday, 16 August 2025
While I have been a bit remiss about making out shopping lists, well I only needed two items so I decided not to write them down, even if I did come away with a couple more ... I have been good about following the menu plan.
As you can see from this photo taken at the end of last week, I ate all bar two days meals directly off the menu plan.
So they were added straight to the top of the next menu plan.
I switched around the fish fillets and new potatoes instead of the pie, that was destined for last night as it was just far too hot for pie and gravy, but apart from that I have been just as good at following my plan this past week.
Will I make the soup tomorrow ... perhaps not for the same reason, but the beauty of a menu plan is that it gives you ideas when you just cannot think straight at the end of a long and perhaps busy day. It doesn't have to be written in stone and rigidly adhered to, and sometimes it can simply be beans on toast again. π
Sue xx
Friday, 15 August 2025
When Life Gives You Lemons ...
I struck gold, well coffee-ground gold in the cafΓ© for the first time while I was there.
They have a basket at the end of the counter that has a sign saying 'Coffee Grounds for Your Garden, please help yourself'. I have never seen any in it, obviously going in so early in the morning is the way forward, so I might have to call for another cup of coffee early one morning. π
Benefits of Coffee Grounds
- How to Use Coffee Grounds
- Precautions
- Monitor Application: Over-application can lead to compaction and create a barrier that prevents water from reaching plant roots. Use coffee grounds sparingly and assess your soil's needs before application.
By incorporating coffee grounds into your gardening practices, you can enhance soil health and promote robust plant growth while recycling a common kitchen waste product.