First thing on Saturday morning we went out for breakfast to one of the garden centres we like. We got a small breakfast each and our free coffees for May. As usual my 'Vegan Gardeners Breakfast' was brought to the table with a couple of packs of Lurpak butter on the plate and I had to ask for Flora instead, which the waitress brought over with a smirk on her face. I am starting to realise that someone in the kitchen is out to try and annoy vegans!! For anyone that doesn't know I am not vegan, but I don't eat meat and I can't eat dairy, but the intolerance often shown to vegans is absolutely infuriating. I have left a review on Trip Advisor after this visit, enough is enough.
After we had finished eating and drinking we wandered around to see if they had any Tumbling Tom type tomato plants, but no such luck. So we called next door to an even bigger garden centre and there we struck lucky.
Alan bought me a tray of spring onions and three Tumbling Tom style tomato plants, three of them being called something else and being yellow. We detoured to Fleetwood on the way home for some fresh air and another cup of coffee.
The tomato plants are all now in the 'bedroom greenhouse' until the weather gets a bit warmer. 😄
On Sunday we went to visit Mum.
She's back at her care home now, but still not doing very well. As is now our habit we stopped at the motorway services to get a snack and a coffee, Alan had the free steak bake that I had available on the Greggs app and we both had coffee. I wasn't in the mood for a pastry so I decided to get a portion of fries from Burger King ... £3.65 for a large fries and a little pot of mayo!! Wow, it's a good job Alan's pastry was free. 😐
This stop on the way home is proving to be a very necessary decompressing stage, we are both coming out of the visits more despondent each time. It's so hard seeing someone you love declining and getting absolutely nothing out of life.
On Sunday we went to Booths café for a quick breakfast before shopping at Aldi. Alan had a small cooked breakfast and I just had a couple of crumpets, Booths are always good at supplying Flora, there are no problems there.
Then it was onto Aldi for the bits of shopping that we both needed, seemingly this week I will be living on fish, peas and tomatoes. I was really surprised that the tins of pink salmon were only £1.45, so I thought I would try them, I usually buy red salmon. If it's just as nice I may stock up a bit as the date on the tins is December 2030.
As usual I didn't need much, my cupboards are ridiculously full.
The receipt for posterity.
So it's seemed to be a very foodie Bank Holiday weekend, with a bit of plant buying and a detour to the seaside for a coffee and some fresh air. It's also been a very snooker-y one for Alan as he has been glued to the Snooker World Championship for the last week and the final was over the weekend. Now he's back to the bungalow for a few days of things really moving forwards. The solar installation will be finished by tonight, the gas pipes will be disconnected to the road tomorrow and the new windows should all be installed by the weekend.
Big changes.
Sue xx
"It's so hard seeing someone you love declining and getting absolutely nothing out of life. WOW, that really does say it all. I feel for your mom and both of you. The last 6 months of my husband's life were a nightmare for him and us, his family. I'm not sure what could have been different, but it was terribly hard to see someone who had been so active his whole life, diminished. :(
ReplyDeleteI agree with both you and Christina above. My mum-in-law is also declining fast and has no quality of life at all now, which is heart-breaking. I wish that people in this situation could have a gentle end, but this is so often not the case. At times like this, happy things, like gardening and hobbies, become so important.
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Ellie
I'm sorry about your Mom. I went through similar things with mine -- although I could only visit infrequently, living across the ocean -- and it is not easy. Glad you got your tomato plants and some free bargains!
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