Monday, 1 December 2025

Blogmas Day One - The Books That I Read in November

 


It's here, December has rolled in with the wettest of nights.  

We had almost torrential rain bucketing down all night and only easing off with the early morning light of a dull December day.  But now we can relax into the twinkling lights that sparkle in all the shops and bop to the Christmas music they play in an effort to get us parted from our money.  But now there are no glares from the 'bah humbug' brigade as we are officially on the countdown to Christmas.

It's also perfect reading weather, so after I list the books that I read in November on here for posterity, I will be digging out all the Christmas themed books from my books shelves and getting myself ready to have a very booky December.

It wasn't such a good reading month again last month just three books completed and the beginning of a fourth ... I must do better!!


I started the month by reading the last quarter of this book.

It was a very good read, and while I thought I had solved the crime ... I hadn't.  There was a delicious twist at the end.  This would make a brilliant binge-worth tv series.


Donated
 ... just because I rarely keep fiction books for rereading, and obviously I know who did it and why.  😄


This is a very unique book written in a very unusual way and it makes it an easy read.  

I enjoyed the quirky aspect of it and really sunk into it and it's message.  There was very little that I didn't already know, having paid of large debts myself in the past and lived with little to no money for a time.  But it reinforced an awful lot for me and made me happy that I had come through this stage of my life, and indeed come through it well and learnt a lot for myself.

If only I had had this book back then, perhaps my journey would have been shorter.


This book has been kept.



This is one of the few books that I have purchased new this year, and I have to say it was worth every penny.

Adam has written the book of his life up to now, interspersing his story with segments called 'Humans of the Waterways'.  The stories of their lives from friends of his, both new and old, many of whom I have already watched on YouTube for a long time.  The whole book was a joy and at times very philosophical.  

There was one very simple sentence that changed my whole mindset.  Basically it's when you feel that something is too much for you to cope with, simply change that you have got to do it, to that you get to do it.  I have put it into action a few times since reading the book and it's really worked.

As an example, yesterday I might have said 'I have got to go and visit Mum today'.  To be truthful I was dreading the visit after the last one when she was virtually comatose, and we both came away so sad.  Instead I said to myself when I woke up...  'I get to visit Mum today'.  Because she is still with us, because we have a car to get us down the motorway, because while I have been too bad to drive Alan has cheerfully picked up the reins and is driving us.  Just changing one letter of one word turned my thinking around and made me feel gratitude, which completely turned the day around.  Happily when we got there she was awake and totally different, which obviously is just a completely happy coincidence, but it reinforced something very powerful in me.

So this book comes highly recommended.

Kept.



I started my final book of the month only a couple of days ago, but I keep putting it down.

It's written with the speech spelt out as a Scottish person would say it, and this messes with my brain!!  I've noticed this before with books, they have to be in 'proper English' for me to really enjoy them.  

It's not as though I can't figure it out, I've obviously been with a Scotsman for over twenty years so I can quite easily decipher most of it, and the story seems to be going in a good direction.  But my poor tired brain is taking a Christmas break from this one.


Kept - to try again in the New Year.


So there might not have been much reading going on last month, but what I read was mostly very good and with three books staying on the bookshelves I get to read them again at a future date.


Sue xx



I would like to point out, that although I provide links to Amazon for all the books that I read each month, not all my books are bought from Amazon.  If they are, some of them were bought from the Used section rather than at full price.  You do not need to spend a fortune to read good books. 💖

I share the links so that you can learn more about the books that I write about for yourself, or read reviews from others that have read them.  Of course most of the books I talk about would also be available from your local library, and if you are very lucky you might even find them in charity or thrift shops. 

There are so many ways to bring books into your home if you love reading. 📚


36 comments:

  1. Have taken a note of the first book thanks-I could do with something good to get my reading brain restarted! I will do mindfullness online every morning until Christmas with a lovely teacher who uses hid skills for the good of everyone. Glad to know your Mum was brighter yesterday and I do like your get rather than got philosophy which I think I should probably practise more. Very wet night last night too and not looking too promising this morning either. Catriona

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    1. It's still not stopped raining here yet. 🫤

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  2. "Floating Home" looks terrific -- I believe I'll pick that one up from my bookshop! I've also heard elsewhere that "The Paris Apartment" is good. Might get that one from the library, because like you said, it won't get read twice.

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    1. It really is worth buying new. I was lucky enough to pick up The Paris Apartment off the £1 charity book table after it was recommended to me. Fate is wonderful. 😀

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  3. I fancy The Paris apartment. Sounds intriguing!
    What a difference one word can make to our psychology. I shall use the word "get" instead of "have". Thanks, Sue..xx

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    1. Yes, it really works with 'have' as well doesn't it. Instead of 'I have to hoover today', 'I get to hoover today because I have lovely carpets to keep fresh'. 😀

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  4. I'm so glad you shared the - swap got for get - encouragement, very useful for me to apply in my life x
    Alison in Devon x

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    1. It's so simple and yet so effective isn't it. ♥️

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  5. Rob Parsons is a gifted writer and a really entertaining speaker. Back in the day , when my husband was busy marrying other women (as a Rev, you understand) we used to give couples RP "60 minute marriage" at their wedding preparation classes. But I've not read this money one.

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    1. Haha, Bob marrying other women, that is brilliant. I bet you've used that a few times. 😄

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  6. Good to hear your Mum was having a good day when you went to see her.

    That would have been another canal book to add to Colin's collection - he had as many canal books as I had WWII Home Front! which is amazing considering he had no books at all when we got together.
    I'll check the library for the Paris Apartment.

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    1. You obviously taught him well. 🙂 Alan's books are all about building regs, engineering or woodwork. It's the most boring book shelf I have ever seen. 😄

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  7. So pleased your mum was a lot better, it puts a better perspective on the visit along with your word 'get'.
    We had a bad visit last Sunday with mine, the weather was appalling which didn't help as it was too bad to take her to the park and she couldn't help her disappointment. I will look out for Floating Home.

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    1. At least you get to take her to the park sometimes, and that is good. Sadly Mum has been completely confined to bed for well over six months now, but at least she gets to watch television when they turn it on for her. ♥️

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  8. 'Get' for 'got'; so simple, so profound. Thank you.
    Glad you had a good visit- that sort of thing can be a real lift.

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    1. It's such a small swap isn't it, but one that changes everything. 🙂

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  9. Changing 'got' to 'get' is the way forward.
    I don't like books written in dialect - they really annoy me and it's one of the reasons I can't enjoy Dickens, as I HAVE to read in the accent.

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    1. I find myself missing the words out rather than trying to do the accent. Then the story goes to pot. 😄

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  10. I've been feeling sorry for myself over the last few days and bought two 99p kindle books this afternoon, both Christmassy ones. I need to distract myself.

    I'm so glad your visit to your mum was better this week. I did think about you yesterday.

    I must remember to change that one letter too :)

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    1. Yes, change it, as often as you can. It makes such a difference. 😀

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  11. Just popping by and enjoying your recommendations. After a not so great Saturday at the cancer hospital, I could use a good read. Cheers, happy December and I'm glad you had a good visit to your Mum.

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    1. I hope you find one of my recommendations good for you. Take care of yourself. xx

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  12. I love the idea of changing one letter in a sentence. So happy that your mom was better this visit.

    God bless.

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    1. Such a simple swap isn't it, but with a huge change of mindset. 😀

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  13. Thank you, Sue! I wsa wondering what to buy one of my friends for Xmas, Floating Home sounds perfect for him! x

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  14. I am so glad that your Mum was better when you visited her, this time. I hope she will be equally well when you gEt to see her the next time. :)

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    1. Between us and my brother we've noticed it alternates each visit. It is what it is. 🫤

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  15. I love the got to get idea, gratitude.

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  16. If I’ve enjoyed a book, especially a crime one, I always enjoy rereading it again a while later, as I can enjoy all the twists and turns and understand why somethings happen, because now I know the outcome! And if I keep it long enough, I can reread it a third time as I’ll have forgotten half of it by then… which accounts for my overfull bookcases! (Karen S)

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    1. I have been known to do that before, but I'm being a bit more ruthless at getting rid of books in the run up to us moving. I did sit and have a bit of a dwell on this one once I finished, and worked out where all the clues might have been. There were some, but they led the reader in the wrong direction. Which I thought was VERY clever!!

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  17. Hi Sue. I’m late in commenting here, but your comment about GOT/GET really had me thinking. I think I will definitely take that on board going forward.

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    1. It's such a small change isn't it, but so powerful. ♥️

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  18. I'm glad you liked the money secret. I'm a bit behind on posts at the min but I enjoy catching up 😊

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    1. I really enjoyed it, and it's been kept, so that shows how useful it is. I think we are all a little behind with things at the moment, it's just that time of year with so much going on.

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